Indlela Abodade Ababili Abalahlekile Abanqume Ngayo Ukuphazamisa Ibhizinisi Lewayini

IMcBride Sisters akuyona inkampani yendabuko yewayini. Iqaliswe ngabesifazane ababili abasebancane abanemibala — okuyivelakancane embonini yewayini yabesilisa nabamhlophe abaningi — ihlanganisa izindlela ezindala nezintsha zokwenza iwayini ukuze kuthathwe okusha embonini esekuphele amakhulu eminyaka. Imboni yewayini ibilokhu iyiqembu labafana elidala, kusho u-Andréa McBride, 33, owasungula le nkampani ngo-2005 nodadewabo uRobin, oneminyaka engama-43. Ngezinye izikhathi sizizwa kufanele sisebenze kanzima kabili ukuzikhombisa. Kepha laba babhekane nobunzima obunzima - abakhuliswe omama abangabodwa emazwenikazi ahlukene, bobabili babecabanga ukuthi bayizingane kuphela kuze kube yilapho ucingo olulodwa ku-Andréa oluvela kubaba wabo osehlukanisile lushintshe konke. Okwenzeka ngokulandelayo kwashintsha izimpilo zabo futhi kwabafundisa noma yini engenzeka. Yizwe kubo, ngezansi.

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U-ANDRÉA: Ngokushesha ngemva kokuba umama nobaba behlukanisile lapho ngineminyaka emine, umama kwatholakala ukuthi unomdlavuza webele ongapheli. Ngangineminyaka eyisithupha lapho esipakisha futhi sathutha sisuka e-LA saya esifundeni esikhulayo samagilebhisi saseMarlborough ezweni lakubo iNew Zealand. Asisabonani nobaba wami.



Ezinyangeni ezimbalwa sifikile, umama wadlula emhlabeni. Ngaqala ukuhlukanisa isikhathi phakathi kwendlu kamalume wami nomndeni wokutholwa e-Auckland.

Ngolunye usuku, lapho ngineminyaka engu-11, ngashayelwa ucingo ngemva kwesikole. Indoda engakolunye uhlangothi yathi, Andréa, ngubaba wakho, futhi ngaphelelwa umoya ngase ngiqala ukukhala. Uthe wayenomdlavuza wesisu futhi nganginodadewethu ogama lakhe linguRobin yena nomndeni wakhe ababezama ukumthola. Ngonyaka olandelayo noma njalo besizokhuluma ocingweni masonto onke. Saqala ukwakha ubuhlobo. Kwathi ngo-1996, kwafika ilungu lomndeni lingitshela ukuthi ubaba wami uyafa. Mina nomama sagibela indiza saya e-United States. Wadlula emhlabeni sisendleleni.

Ngasikhathi sinye, umndeni kababa wawusazama ukuthola uRobin. Lokhu kwakungaphambi kweGoogle, ngakho-ke babethumela izincwadi ezweni lonke kuwo wonke umuntu onegama lakhe. Kwaze kwaba ngo-1999 lapho enye yezinhlamvu yagcina ifinyelele kuye.

ROBIN: Ngangineminyaka engaphansi kwemibili lapho umama nobaba wethu behlukanisa futhi wasisusa eL.A. saya eMonterey — ngakho angimkhumbuli. Umama wami wayehlale ekhuluma kamnandi mayelana nobaba nomndeni wakhe. Akazange aphinde abe nezingane, futhi wayezelwe yedwa, futhi — ngakho-ke babengekho abazala, obabekazi noma omalume. Akusizanga ukuthi ngangixube izinhlanga futhi babengekho abanye abantu ababebukeka njengami edolobheni lami. Kwakunesizungu.

Ngama-20s ami okuqala ngathuthela e-Atlanta. Ngelinye ilanga umama wangishayela ucingo ngivela eMonterey wangitshela ukuthi uthole incwadi enekheli lokubuyela e-Alabama-lapho umndeni kababa wami wawuvela khona. Ngangazi ukuthi kukhona okuthile okukhulu ngaphakathi. Ngatshela umama, ngivule, bese ungithumela ngefekisi.

Ngangiqinisile. It kwaba okukhulu. Le ncwadi yayiqhamuka kubabekazi wami engitshela ukuthi ubaba wami udlulile emhlabeni nokuthi nginodadewethu okuthiwa u-Andréa owayehlala eNew Zealand. Noma imiphi imicabango enganginayo ngokuxhumana nobaba yayingasekho. Kodwa indawo encane ekhanyayo ukuthi nganginodadewethu — ingane yakini engangihlale ngiyifuna.

Ngishayele inombolo kule ncwadi, futhi umamekazi wayejabule kakhulu. Wabe esethi, Udadewenu ulapha. Lokho kwakufana nokucwiliswa emanzini abandayo. Incwadi yayithe u-Andréa uhlala eNew Zealand, ngakho-ke bengingalindele ukuhlangana naye maduze. Kwenzeka ukuthi abe ese-US ngekhefu lakhe lasebusika. Kuthe kusenjalo wabe esecingweni. Ngangingazi ukuthi uthini — indlela ayekhuluma ngayo yayinamandla ngempela ngaleso sikhathi — kodwa kwakukuhle. Ngibekise indiza ukuze ngihlangane nayo eNew York ngakusasa ekuseni.

Lapho ngehla ebhanoyini, ngabona engangicabanga ukuthi kwakuwukubonakaliswa kwami ​​esibukweni ekugcineni kwendiza. Kwaba ngu-Andréa.

Sivele sagonana sabe sesiya endaweni yokucima ukoma sahlala amahora amaningi — sikhala futhi sikhuluma. Wabuya weza nami e-Atlanta waze waphoqeleka ukuthi abuyele eNew Zealand ukuze ayoqeda isikole.

U-ANDRÉA: Saqhubeka sixhumana iminyaka embalwa eyalandela. Kodwa lapho ngibuyela e-L.A. ekolishi, kulapho mina noRobin sasondelana khona. Sasixoxa nsuku zonke. Noma nini lapho ngiba nempelasonto emahhala, ngangishayela ngiye eMonterey — lapho uRobin ayesebuyele khona — futhi sasizihlalela siye kokunambitha iwayini. Ngangicabanga ukuthi kumnandi — ukuphuza iwayini nodadewethu omkhulu. Saqala ukukhuluma ngokuzenzela iwayini.

ROBIN: Mina no-Andréa sakhula sizungeze izivini nezindawo zewayini, futhi lapho sesiqale ukuchitha isikhathi esiningi ndawonye eMonterey, kwaba ngathi yinto yethu leyo.

U-ANDRÉA: Saqala ngo-2005 ukungenisa amawayini amnandi, asimeme asuka eNew Zealand. Kwathi-ke, ekupheleni kuka-2010, sethula umkhiqizo wethu wokuqala wewayini ngaphansi kwe- Inkampani yewayini iMcBride Sisters kubizwe uthando , evela eNew Zealand. Kulo nyaka, sethule ingane yethu entsha sha — i-rosé ebizwa Truvée lisuselwa esenzweni sesiFulentshi esisho ukuthi ‘ukuthola.’ Lapho sinquma ngegama, sasilokhu sibuyela endabeni yethu yokutholana. Kuzwakale kulungile.

ROBIN: Ngaphambi kokuba ngihlangane no-Andréa, ngangizizwa ngilinganiselwe kakhulu kulokho engangiyikho, emakhono ami nasekubukeleni kwami ​​ikusasa. Kusukela ngihlangane naye, ngithole lo mqondo omkhulu wokuba nethemba. Manje ngiyazi ukuthi singafeza noma yini ngokubambisana.

—Njengoba ilandiswa uConcepcion de Leon

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